tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post1761616310304630207..comments2023-07-13T08:53:18.338-05:00Comments on I Promise Not to Laugh During the Seance: When Plans Fall Through...Laurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10242720787149022301noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-39384002616297168262008-02-08T16:13:00.000-06:002008-02-08T16:13:00.000-06:00I've heard from so many people that the numbness o...I've heard from so many people that the numbness of grief is so much better than the subsequent pain. I'm so sorry. Just keep making it one more day. Then get up the next morning and do it again...Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02967745278090623772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-25814423293570870642008-02-08T11:00:00.000-06:002008-02-08T11:00:00.000-06:00Niagra Falls is a great idea!Niagra Falls is a great idea!Kathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07135015779221971740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-78441165379739990812008-02-08T10:31:00.000-06:002008-02-08T10:31:00.000-06:00East coast? Hmm??? Where? :)Take careEast coast? Hmm??? Where? :)<BR/><BR/>Take careJess Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034701149199420149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-71865501155908793312008-02-08T09:03:00.000-06:002008-02-08T09:03:00.000-06:00Niagara Falls. It's only a four hour drive. They...Niagara Falls. It's only a four hour drive. They still do the light show at night and the falls are spectacular with the ice and snow. You could get a room with a view of the falls (the Sheraton on Clifton Hill has great views) and just take it easy and enjoy the change of scenery.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-37133049165018603442008-02-08T08:36:00.000-06:002008-02-08T08:36:00.000-06:00Dear Laura,Please don't get caught up in "should" ...Dear Laura,<BR/><BR/>Please don't get caught up in "should" and "shouldn't," or in judging your grieving or what you're "supposed" to be doing. The thoughts and memories are not intrusions; they're the grieving. Grieving IS healing, and you have to lean into it and feel it, even though it hurts. It's not going to hurt less later, and it will wait for you. Bless your heart for worrying about James' broken heart regarding this trip; but please take care of your broken heart, too. You're tired. Don't feel bad about resting.<BR/><BR/>Love and hugs.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-41385158264855470602008-02-08T08:26:00.000-06:002008-02-08T08:26:00.000-06:00I'm sorry your plans fell through. The disappoint...I'm sorry your plans fell through. The disappointment at a time like this must be huge. I wish I could help you. If there is anything please let me know. Btw, your comment yesterday was kind and I appreciated it! Hugs to you and I hope you have the best day you can have.Courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09507014000129322933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-62939222253493416242008-02-08T00:21:00.000-06:002008-02-08T00:21:00.000-06:00Somewhere warm and sunny? How about your brothers...Somewhere warm and sunny? How about your brothers in California? But that'd be tough with such short notice. How is Nicole doing these days? Up to 'par' yet?Kathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07135015779221971740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-43391219512817249062008-02-08T00:01:00.000-06:002008-02-08T00:01:00.000-06:00Laura, I'm so sorry your plans fell through. Hopef...Laura, I'm so sorry your plans fell through. Hopefully something will come along that turns out to be a wonderful getaway. <BR/><BR/>Always thinking of you and the children. <BR/><BR/>with love<BR/>kesha.Keshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17033096549906041067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-55634732546383753992008-02-07T23:02:00.000-06:002008-02-07T23:02:00.000-06:00Dear Laura, it is so hard isn't it? I got up today...Dear Laura, it is so hard isn't it? I got up today to listen to the phone messages just to hear John's voice..<BR/> I really do need your friendship.. You know what I am going through. And thank you for being there. love nita~Red Tin Heart~https://www.blogger.com/profile/06671156484674719228noreply@blogger.com