tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post1993566214362014040..comments2023-07-13T08:53:18.338-05:00Comments on I Promise Not to Laugh During the Seance: Tie a knot, Laura, tie a KNOTLaurahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10242720787149022301noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-34262131182021224592008-01-23T18:56:00.000-06:002008-01-23T18:56:00.000-06:00Thinking of you still.Thinking of you still.Nancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17627214346956206283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-72722150424573782892008-01-23T12:24:00.000-06:002008-01-23T12:24:00.000-06:00Hi Laura. I really like that saying, I'm going to...Hi Laura. I really like that saying, I'm going to remember that one. Sorry that it applies to you so much. I really just wanted to let you know that I'm still checking in on you. Hang in there.Scotthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07286826423526288591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-55356042568556143512008-01-22T22:55:00.000-06:002008-01-22T22:55:00.000-06:00Thank you everyone. For some reason (I know the re...Thank you everyone. For some reason (I know the reason) the death of Heath Ledger has really gotten to me this evening. I will be back tomorrow... I just can't do this today.Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10242720787149022301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-436336014791023552008-01-22T21:35:00.000-06:002008-01-22T21:35:00.000-06:00I'd never heard that expression before. I like it...I'd never heard that expression before. I like it. You can do it. They are right, you have come so far. <BR/><BR/>Love to you!<BR/>JessJess Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034701149199420149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-20637066698934555362008-01-22T19:23:00.000-06:002008-01-22T19:23:00.000-06:00I hope that we can all be your 'knot'. Something ...I hope that we can all be your 'knot'. Something to hang on to when you need it. You know you have friends. <BR/><BR/>I know when I am lonliest for Jim and in a hurting shape, coming here and to my blog and amongst my cyber friends really does help. <BR/><BR/>Hugs!Betts4https://www.blogger.com/profile/18037389343121979588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-91888204562984128602008-01-22T18:27:00.000-06:002008-01-22T18:27:00.000-06:00Sorry, reading back on that today it does seem har...Sorry, reading back on that today it does seem harsh what I wrote about your mom. But having read how you and she get along I thought it might. Nevermind, it was a stupid thing to post. I hope you are feeling better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-6557402794951109482008-01-22T18:09:00.000-06:002008-01-22T18:09:00.000-06:00Laura, I think blogging about needing a knot is an...Laura, I think blogging about needing a knot is an indication that you have one tied and are hanging on to it already. Hang in there, sweetie, we are all rooting for you.Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09264059472790843992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-84235127774662653462008-01-22T16:24:00.000-06:002008-01-22T16:24:00.000-06:00I second what Erin said- several times this weeken...I second what Erin said- several times this weekend I wanted to snap at Jim for something insignificant but irritating, and I bit it back. I actually thought of you, and of Leonard, and I thought, "I don't want to remember saying this if there's ever a time I'm in the same boat." So there's a knot for you- you help me be a better partner, a better spouse. You give a perspective that is sometimes, especially in bloggerland where we're always complaining, sadly missing.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07141742419364168878noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-20578922345251000012008-01-22T13:45:00.000-06:002008-01-22T13:45:00.000-06:00Sending love. Don't get caught up in the what ifs...Sending love. Don't get caught up in the what ifs. Try to stop your mind from going there. Not helpful.<BR/><BR/>What about now, are you planning to buy a new house for you and the kids? What are your vacation plans for this summer? What colleges are Nicole thinking about? Road trips to check them all out.<BR/><BR/>What if you had bought a house? It wasn't your fault, it really wasn't your fault. He gave you peace and everyday you spent with him was better than the days before and now the days after. I am sure that the same is true for him, that you made his days better too. You didn't fail him and it wasn't your fault. You can go back through everyday you spent together and find fault with yourself and think what if I had done this differently, but then you are only bringing yourself pain. when your mind goes there find a way out.Marshamlowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00604324969370405697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-9213728764784832222008-01-22T12:00:00.000-06:002008-01-22T12:00:00.000-06:00I love what Sharpie said...tie a tire on and swing...I love what Sharpie said...tie a tire on and swing. I so appreciate the honesty and candor you write each post with. I have a past co-worker who is also in a similar situation. I am going to direct her to your blog. I know it will mean the world to her. <BR/>Thank you for who you are and for sharing it with us.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-413067591050579632008-01-22T10:41:00.000-06:002008-01-22T10:41:00.000-06:00Just picture, in your mind, ALL of US throwing you...Just picture, in your mind, ALL of US throwing you a rope! It's a Rainbow of colors and it's full of love and warmth...we Won't let go..Neither will you!!! Love to you Sweetie!!!Donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00181520825012037531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-43802645790683106712008-01-22T10:31:00.000-06:002008-01-22T10:31:00.000-06:00Laura. I've been reading here for a little while n...Laura. I've been reading here for a little while now and am always trying to come up with something to say in this comment section to just let you know I'm out here. I actually think about you and what has happened to your family a lot throughout my day. I don't mean that in a wierd way, but in a way that-- I hope-- keeps Leonards memory alive when I give an extra kiss to my husband for no reason, or bite my tongue when I'm about to say something trite. I know this doesn't help you at all. But for what it's worth.<BR/><BR/>I personally am not religious, but a few years back my family went through a significant loss. I bought C.S. Lewis' book "A Grief Observed." It starts out with the line, "No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear." To me at the time, that one line felt so crystal, so perfectly stated, it took me a few days to find the courage to pick up the book again.Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05170500094049647497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-57290061323443494032008-01-22T09:40:00.000-06:002008-01-22T09:40:00.000-06:00Laura, I stumbled on your blog this morning about ...Laura, I stumbled on your blog this morning about 6:30 on Hallie's blog. It is now 10:30 and I have read every single posting since you started. You may not realize how far you've come but you have! I am so very sorry for your loss but just wanted to tell you how much I can tell the difference in your posts. <BR/><BR/>You are starting to have some "up" days which is wonderful and I'm so proud of you! Please don't get frustrated with the down days. Let yourself have them. I keep telling myself "just wait 24 hours" and a lot of times it does change for the better. <BR/><BR/>You are a very strong woman and I have gained a great deal of strength from spending the past LOL 4 solid hours with you!<BR/><BR/>Pulling for your survival..and you will...<BR/>Debbie in NCAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-48959242485003189882008-01-22T08:26:00.000-06:002008-01-22T08:26:00.000-06:00Laura,I think that DJ had a wonderful saying and h...Laura,<BR/><BR/>I think that DJ had a wonderful saying and how you remembered it is amazing. Tie and hold tight, but remember you have many "friends" here and are willing to listen and help in any way possible.Courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09507014000129322933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-30733026257663495452008-01-22T08:14:00.000-06:002008-01-22T08:14:00.000-06:00I am tying a big knot on this end of the line for ...I am tying a big knot on this end of the line for you out here. I am here to help catch you should you find yourself slipping. I think each person who writes here has a tied knot for you and if the road gets too much, we can all join our knots to form a safety net to catch your fall. You can count on us to love and support you.<BR/><BR/>Laurie in Ca.Laurie in Ca.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15599832324966859946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-61773060680556500092008-01-22T08:07:00.000-06:002008-01-22T08:07:00.000-06:00Wow, Anonymous, that was cruel and uncalled for! ...Wow, Anonymous, that was cruel and uncalled for! I get very disheartened when folks hide behind anonymity and say hurtful things. I can appreciate what you were going for, but there were much kinder ways you could have expressed them. <BR/><BR/>Laura, I like your saying. I too find myself desperately trying to tie knots some days. Just keep hanging in there!! <BR/><BR/>HUGS!Rachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09317328366288947798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-3490132225967035112008-01-22T07:53:00.000-06:002008-01-22T07:53:00.000-06:00I think this entry IS your knot. Hang onto it. Han...I think this entry IS your knot. Hang onto it. Hang on to that call for help and support, hang on to those kids, hang on to all of us who care for you, whether we “know” you or not. Take a swing on Sharpie’s tire, feel the wind in your hair and know, that no matter how hard it is, you’re HERE. We’re all here for you, and the knot will HOLD.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04725046248727891093noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-67321482874633156322008-01-22T06:30:00.000-06:002008-01-22T06:30:00.000-06:00Laura,I think if I always feel about Mr. Hallisicl...Laura,<BR/><BR/>I think if I always feel about Mr. Hallisicle the way you did about your husband, I will be blessed.<BR/><BR/>I am devestated that you have to go through this experience but I am in awe of your strength and love.<BR/><BR/>HallieWonderful World of Weinershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12704174092907120103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-7725643780252812892008-01-22T05:53:00.000-06:002008-01-22T05:53:00.000-06:00*securing a tire to the bottom of the rope*Now, si...*securing a tire to the bottom of the rope*<BR/><BR/>Now, sit and swing for a bit.<BR/><BR/>Big hugs!Sharpiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16069441965855692593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-62618832384950163032008-01-22T02:05:00.000-06:002008-01-22T02:05:00.000-06:00No words of wisdom here, I am just glad you are fi...No words of wisdom here, I am just glad you are finding ways to hang on tight, and you just keep tying those knots as many and as large as you need. <BR/>I hope that in some small way, our caring about you, is helping to 'throw you a rope' when needed.Kathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07135015779221971740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-85620573563854195652008-01-22T00:36:00.000-06:002008-01-22T00:36:00.000-06:00Whoa, anonymous, that's pretty bold.But Laura, I h...Whoa, anonymous, that's pretty bold.<BR/><BR/>But Laura, I hope you make that knot mighty big, and maybe put something really sticky on it so that it's easier to hold on.<BR/><BR/>We're here for you, there are so many fabulous people that care for you. Know that, and weave that into your knot as well.Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11604097511444010759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-74446633035679899952008-01-21T23:45:00.000-06:002008-01-21T23:45:00.000-06:00If you want a knot to hang onto, think about your ...If you want a knot to hang onto, think about your mom raising your kids.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-36140558027333077302008-01-21T22:27:00.000-06:002008-01-21T22:27:00.000-06:00One of Jim's former (and graduated) students told ...One of Jim's former (and graduated) students told me that he thought the thing I was best at was being Mrs Prior. That it was as if being Jim's wife was what I was born to be.<BR/><BR/>He still has no idea how much that hurt, and how much it was true. Jim and I met when we were in our 30s and married when we were around 50, so we each had separate and varied lives before we got together.<BR/><BR/>Still, I know it was true, and that's why I'm at loose ends now.<BR/><BR/>Hang in there. I'm sure there are a lot of widows out there who are in the same condition.<BR/><BR/>We have to trust that life has something else in store for us. and that we will find it.Ronnihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02062796442588373271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1845564822661253716.post-17747391623301135782008-01-21T21:28:00.000-06:002008-01-21T21:28:00.000-06:00Laura, hang on to that rope. You always come up wi...Laura, hang on to that rope. You always come up with some thing small that happened a long time ago and now it has so much meaning. I admire that. <BR/><BR/>Regarding to your previous post, Shelties are great barkers. The adage, "It's bark is worse than its bite" must have come from a Sheltie owner.Sharihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14743533586969447238noreply@blogger.com