Thursday, May 31, 2012

Goodbye Little Man...

I guess I cannot call him that anymore. In the however-many-months it has been since I was here last, he has grown taller than me, moved up 3(three) shoe sizes, spoken in a deeper voice (oh how I miss his Mickey Mouse chatter) and stopped being a little man... *sniffle*

James "graduated" from 8th grade today. Luckily, in our district, they don't actually "graduate" them so I didn't have to get dressed up, drive to the school, fight for parking, etc--all so I could cry in public. I did my crying at home. I have, without fail, cried at every single first day of school and every single last day of school, for both James and Nicole. Yes, I'm one of those moms. The ones who can't manage to get a grip. It has been a rough couple of years for James, academically. Well not really academically--he does rather well--but getting-along-with-teachers-ly. James has become a bit more social minded. IE. he talks a lot, wherein he did not before.

Because I start off each new school year with an email to each of his teachers explaining who James is and his life story (the condensed version) and an entreaty to contact me if there is anything "out of the norm", I get a lot of phone calls. Well, not a lot, but, in my world, any phone call from school is a lot. One or two of his teachers gave me a minute by minute account of what James did or didn't do to annoy them. It got rather, for lack of a better work, annoying for myself. Except I brought it on myself by asking. Lesson learned.

So James is off to high school (*sob), with his mother somewhere lurking there behind him, yelling,"Keep your head up, for God's sake!"


Stella said...

Best wishes to James! :)

Nance said...

Stop by sometime. I miss you over at the Dept. Or shoot me an email. I think of you often.

J at said...

Wow, high school. How's it going for him? Some kids love it, find that they get more respect and responsibility, and they thrive on that. Other kids do NOT love it, the cliques, the change in structure, the work.

I think of you and wonder how you're doing, but I thought you were done blogging, so I hadn't been here in awhile. I'm glad to see you here, and doing a little blogging from time to time.

My daughter is a Junior in High School now. Crazy how fast time goes by. She's mostly loving it, the social part, the friends part. She gets good grades, but the classes and the whole college thing stress her the hell out. Sigh. Too much stress sometimes.

Donna said...

Hi sweetie...been a Long while but I found the blog address again and thought I'd check in and Wowser!!!
James is almost a Man now!!! SO handsome!
Thinking of you, always...